Be trustworthy. How a lot of your Canada Day is definitely about Canada? At my final Canada Day occasion, in 2019, which now feels so distant, a time earlier than COVID-19, I stood exterior at a beautiful celebration hosted by a pal, the visitors principally folks I didn’t know. I snacked on chips, drank some drinks, and watched nervously as fireworks had been lit within the yard just a little too shut for my liking, a spectacle of flashes and bangs eliciting oohs and aahs.
Not as soon as did the subject of Canada come up at that celebration, save for infrequent tipsy declarations of “Glad Canada Day!” We didn’t focus on what we favored or disliked about Canada. We didn’t communicate of what Canada meant to us, or any of Canada’s or Canadians’ achievements. We didn’t rank our favorite Heritage Minutes. Fairly, that day, like most Canada Days earlier than it, was a day without work from work, an excuse to collect with household and pals, to eat and drink, an excuse to shoot harmful however fairly lights into the evening sky.
Is your Canada Day actually that completely different? At your picnics, do you go round giving thanks? At your yard gathering, apart from the presence of a flag, is your celebration actually about Canada, or do you spend extra time determining in case your burger is prepared or if the beer is chilly sufficient but? Is it actually about Canada, or actually about leisure and a day’s reduction from labour and duty?
I don’t imagine our Indigenous communities are asking us to not have a day without work, to not collect, to not be with household and pals, to not be surrounded by the heat and luxury of our family members. To me, they’re merely asking us to recollect theirs. The infants who didn’t come dwelling, omitted from so a lot of our historical past books however by no means forgotten by their group. And on this Canada Day, so near the contemporary discovery of the our bodies of their family members — their graves unmarked since you don’t mark what you are attempting to cover — as a substitute of celebrating with fireworks and pomp and circumstance, many appear to be asking us to replicate on what the becoming a member of collectively of three British colonies on July 1, 1867, meant for the unique inhabitants and caretakers of this land, and continues to imply for them day by day.
Do fireworks actually imply a lot to your Canadian identification that going with out them is a few nice injustice? After Indigenous folks actually died in genocide, then and now, nonetheless now, for Canada to exist because it does immediately, is it actually asking a lot for us to cease and take into consideration what Canada has been, is and could possibly be as a substitute of lighting a sparkler? To ask us to not have a good time the instrument of individuals’s grief when individuals are freshly grieving?
If we actually wish to be the Canada that Canada claims to be, that I hope all of us need it to be, a Canada that cares for all of its folks, then studying, listening, reflecting and performing on July 1 is the naked minimal. If celebrating Canada Day this 12 months does matter that a lot to you, take into consideration why it does. After which take into consideration why others might not have the identical motivation. Why others might affiliate Canada and this Canada Day particularly with ache. Take into consideration and find out about what you would do to make sure others which were handled badly by Canada aren’t handled that method anymore. To make sure that Canada doesn’t simply deal with some folks effectively, however everybody effectively. Take into consideration land, water, policing, justice, custom, freedom, group. Take heed to Indigenous leaders and communities. Take heed to the individuals who have been talking their truths for many years, for hundreds of years.
I’ll replicate on my relationship with this land, on what it means to be a settler, my presence right here itself a legacy of colonial violence — my Black ancestors introduced over to the Americas in shackles on boats, my indigenous Caribbean ancestors killed and displaced by the Europeans, my dad and mom finally shifting north by aircraft. I’ll focus on with my pals how we are able to do our half, immediately and day by day, in fact and reconciliation. This 12 months, my Canada Day could have no celebration. However I need us all to consider what we have to do to be a Canada value celebrating.